The disciples of John approached Jesus and said,
“Why do we and the Pharisees fast much,
but your disciples do not fast?”
Jesus answered them, “Can the wedding guests mourn
as long as the bridegroom is with them?
The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them,
and then they will fast.”
When I meditate on this passage I get stuck on the entire concept of fasting. Fasting is one of those things that few people want to do many most can agree with the necessity. Fasting is not necessarily a religious act either. Some people fast in protest and others for health reason. Some, the poor, fast because they have no choice in the matter. I am blessed that it doesn’t happen often, but even I have gone without to allow my son something to eat when money is tight.
The fasting that Jesus is discussing with the disciples of John is a religious fasting that occurred regularly. Not the type of fasting anyone would want to do aside from wanting to please the Other. In this passage Jesus reminds us that when He is with us there is no need to fast and morn. We should be joyful of His presence first.
What This Means To Me
Here comes the personal diary part of this blog. What sticks most with me is Jesus’ emphasis on how the bridegroom will be taken away and then the time for fasting will come. On the surface I know we are looking at the crucifixion. But you can connect it with todays life if you look a little deeper. Jesus is with us in the Eucharist. Sundays are not counted amidst our Lenten sacrifices. There is no need to mourn Him while He is with us. Look deeper.
What truly seperates us from Jesus? Our sins. It is not just the crucifixion taking Jesus away from the disciples, but our sins taking us away from Him.
So how do we fix that? Really fix it. If we look deeper at the analogy of fasting. What is fasting? In essence… doing without. We need to fast from that which pulls us away from Jesus. Is it the same thing every day that pulls us away from God? Not necessarily. It can be, to be sure. I used to give up Chocolate for Lent. It was easy. It was something that I shouldn’t have so much of. But did it really serve the purpose.
My Lenten sacrifice this year is to focus on my faith and that which draws me away from God. Each day the devil will work towards drawing me away. My goal is to fight the good fight on a daily basis to bring myself back. I plan on starting with these daily blog entries based on praying the Lectio Divina. I am sure there will be plenty to try to stop me. That which tries to stop me will become my Lenten sacrifice.
Will I be successful? I’ve already missed two days so I do not believe I can be called out as being perfect. It does mean that I have made a decision and will work to being a better child of God. That is all he ever asked of us.